a poem that rhymes. haha
Monyet terbang
I saw myself upon the sea
dreams battered to pieces
drained dead upon a tree
as light that shone ceases
though u are but a lonely soul
i'll be there to make u smile
we can listen to rock n roll
anything thats worth the while
i know later you will be gone
lets share this moment till its dawn
i'll hug u tight under the moon
fuck, this ends too soon
your eyes closes, your breathing slow
remember the time i said hello
your heart beats no longer show
not even for me, the one you know
the sun shall rise and you dissolve
it is my demise you have me involved
what life is worth living when living alone
i see no path, all i do is mourn
future days is as much a bleak light
like candles die, i too thereby
leaving memories i had that night
to no one because monkeys fly
Monkeys fly?!
Friday, August 27, 2010
Friday, April 16, 2010
relationship tips.
1. Men want honest, timely, loving communication.
Honest communication is top priority for men. They want a woman who answers questions honestly, and perhaps even volunteers information. They want a woman who confidently asks for her wants and needs to be met. They want a woman who can see the truth and tell it like it is while communicating with kindness. Men want a woman who can communicate without being too critical, who cares about preserving his and her dignity.
Women think men want them to be superficial, to keep quiet about their needs or wants, and never to ask for anything. Women think men believe them to be too needy and too sensitive, and that men simply want women to get over it. Some women believe they do not have the permission to tell it like it is, that they will be rejected for speaking up.
A tip for women
Great men want and need straightforward, courageous communication without anger or criticism. One way to attract a great man and build a satisfying relationship is to learn how to communicate your truth and needs effectively.
2. Men want self-sufficient, secure, confident women.
Men want a woman to choose them out of want rather than out of desperation — either materially or emotionally. Men need to be wanted and needed by their partners, but they want their partners to have a separate identity. Men want a woman to be active and independent, to have her own friends and interests.
On the other hand, men treasure time spend with a loving partner.
Women think men don’t want women to need them. Women think men do not need or appreciate time spent together as a couple. Women believe that showing a man he is needed will turn him off and
possibly make him run away.
A tip for women
Men want what women want — a whole partner. One powerful way to attract a great man and build a vibrant relationship is to create a full, rewarding life for your own fulfillment.
3. Men want a manipulation-free relationship.
Men want no manipulation of any kind. They do not want to read their partner’s mind or try to interpret signals. They do not want to be forced to move faster in a relationship than they are ready. They do not want to be manipulated into taking all the blame for things gone wrong. They do not want to be on the receiving end of game playing.
Women think men want little or no communication, and the only way to get needs met is through manipulation. Women think men either need or want to be reminded that the relationship needs to move forward. Women think men don’t want or value praise and acknowledgment, and so tend to only verbalize criticism.
A tip for women
Men will not tolerate manipulation of any kind for any significant length of time. To attract a great man and build a wonderful relationship learn to ask without hesitation for what you want and need in every area of your life. Learn to be aware of his timing and his time-line. Learn how to acknowledge and bestow praise.
4. Men want growth, personal responsibility, and ownership.
Men want a partner who can laugh at herself and who has courage and strength. They want a woman who can see her part in relationship dynamics and own it. She has to be emotionally stable. Men want a woman who is developing herself personally, and who takes responsibility for her emotional experience.
Women think men only want to have a good time. Women think men have no interest in developing and growing a relationship or developing and growing themselves. Women think men want women who are super models, and that they never consider whether a
woman is emotionally mature, kind, supportive, or loving.
A tip for women
Men want women who are emotionally mature. Maturity does not mean lack of emotions. It does mean the ability to handle emotions responsibly. To attract a great man and build a long-term relationship, learn to take responsibility for your emotional experience and expression.
5. Men want fidelity and a commitment to the relationship.
Fidelity is an absolute must. In fact, men want a woman who does not have a “roaming eye” and who can wholeheartedly commit to the relationship. Many may define commitment as fidelity plus the willingness to work on the relationship — even when the going gets tough.
Women think that all men want is sex, and that men will leave a relationship for the next prettier face. Women think men cannot be trusted to be faithful. Women believe men do not want to work on a relationship; that when the going gets tough, they run.
A tip for women
Here is great news for those women who are resigned to the myth that all men cheat: infidelity and “a roaming eye” are as distasteful to men as they are to women. Great men know how to build a wonderful relationship, and they know fidelity is the main ingredient.
6. Men want women who know how men need to be treated.
Many women treat men in ways that diminish their egos, making them feel inadequate. Men would rather have more praise, more acknowledgment of what they do right, more acknowledgment that they are great guys who are loved and appreciated.
Women think men do not need them, do not value their opinion, their support, their praise. Women also think men do not care about many things important to women, which is why they criticize. Criticism is a way to verbalize resentment.
A tip for women
Most men want acknowledgment and appreciation from women. Learning to acknowledge instead of making your partner wrong is one of the most powerful relationship survival tools available to you.
Honest communication is top priority for men. They want a woman who answers questions honestly, and perhaps even volunteers information. They want a woman who confidently asks for her wants and needs to be met. They want a woman who can see the truth and tell it like it is while communicating with kindness. Men want a woman who can communicate without being too critical, who cares about preserving his and her dignity.
Women think men want them to be superficial, to keep quiet about their needs or wants, and never to ask for anything. Women think men believe them to be too needy and too sensitive, and that men simply want women to get over it. Some women believe they do not have the permission to tell it like it is, that they will be rejected for speaking up.
A tip for women
Great men want and need straightforward, courageous communication without anger or criticism. One way to attract a great man and build a satisfying relationship is to learn how to communicate your truth and needs effectively.
2. Men want self-sufficient, secure, confident women.
Men want a woman to choose them out of want rather than out of desperation — either materially or emotionally. Men need to be wanted and needed by their partners, but they want their partners to have a separate identity. Men want a woman to be active and independent, to have her own friends and interests.
On the other hand, men treasure time spend with a loving partner.
Women think men don’t want women to need them. Women think men do not need or appreciate time spent together as a couple. Women believe that showing a man he is needed will turn him off and
possibly make him run away.
A tip for women
Men want what women want — a whole partner. One powerful way to attract a great man and build a vibrant relationship is to create a full, rewarding life for your own fulfillment.
3. Men want a manipulation-free relationship.
Men want no manipulation of any kind. They do not want to read their partner’s mind or try to interpret signals. They do not want to be forced to move faster in a relationship than they are ready. They do not want to be manipulated into taking all the blame for things gone wrong. They do not want to be on the receiving end of game playing.
Women think men want little or no communication, and the only way to get needs met is through manipulation. Women think men either need or want to be reminded that the relationship needs to move forward. Women think men don’t want or value praise and acknowledgment, and so tend to only verbalize criticism.
A tip for women
Men will not tolerate manipulation of any kind for any significant length of time. To attract a great man and build a wonderful relationship learn to ask without hesitation for what you want and need in every area of your life. Learn to be aware of his timing and his time-line. Learn how to acknowledge and bestow praise.
4. Men want growth, personal responsibility, and ownership.
Men want a partner who can laugh at herself and who has courage and strength. They want a woman who can see her part in relationship dynamics and own it. She has to be emotionally stable. Men want a woman who is developing herself personally, and who takes responsibility for her emotional experience.
Women think men only want to have a good time. Women think men have no interest in developing and growing a relationship or developing and growing themselves. Women think men want women who are super models, and that they never consider whether a
woman is emotionally mature, kind, supportive, or loving.
A tip for women
Men want women who are emotionally mature. Maturity does not mean lack of emotions. It does mean the ability to handle emotions responsibly. To attract a great man and build a long-term relationship, learn to take responsibility for your emotional experience and expression.
5. Men want fidelity and a commitment to the relationship.
Fidelity is an absolute must. In fact, men want a woman who does not have a “roaming eye” and who can wholeheartedly commit to the relationship. Many may define commitment as fidelity plus the willingness to work on the relationship — even when the going gets tough.
Women think that all men want is sex, and that men will leave a relationship for the next prettier face. Women think men cannot be trusted to be faithful. Women believe men do not want to work on a relationship; that when the going gets tough, they run.
A tip for women
Here is great news for those women who are resigned to the myth that all men cheat: infidelity and “a roaming eye” are as distasteful to men as they are to women. Great men know how to build a wonderful relationship, and they know fidelity is the main ingredient.
6. Men want women who know how men need to be treated.
Many women treat men in ways that diminish their egos, making them feel inadequate. Men would rather have more praise, more acknowledgment of what they do right, more acknowledgment that they are great guys who are loved and appreciated.
Women think men do not need them, do not value their opinion, their support, their praise. Women also think men do not care about many things important to women, which is why they criticize. Criticism is a way to verbalize resentment.
A tip for women
Most men want acknowledgment and appreciation from women. Learning to acknowledge instead of making your partner wrong is one of the most powerful relationship survival tools available to you.
Sunday, January 31, 2010
the flower
Looking at it,
Reminds me of you
my soul splits in two
you put a spell on me
by drawing it
A life not lived
A lifeless body
without a soul
Dead yet walking
You put water into this
desert
A being, in solitude
apart from society
distant from civilization
You remind me of life
The smell of flowers
the colours of a rainbow
the sound of waterfalls
the beautiful sight of greeneries
You picked up the pieces
of happiness
lost.
I hope it never fades
Never liked it.
I love it
The flower you drew on my hand
Thanks.
Reminds me of you
my soul splits in two
you put a spell on me
by drawing it
A life not lived
A lifeless body
without a soul
Dead yet walking
You put water into this
desert
A being, in solitude
apart from society
distant from civilization
You remind me of life
The smell of flowers
the colours of a rainbow
the sound of waterfalls
the beautiful sight of greeneries
You picked up the pieces
of happiness
lost.
I hope it never fades
Never liked it.
I love it
The flower you drew on my hand
Thanks.
Monday, December 21, 2009
S. Muneera
It’s all the same process,
The pain is still the same
If not, more painful
I’ll miss your smile
That, I’ll miss the most
And the chance to know you
Let alone having you
I’ll miss your silky white skin,
Never touched, only looked upon
At a distance
I’ll miss your long black hair,
And again, your smile
I thought I had it,
Self-esteem, confidence
We never said a word to each other
All those only can I imagine
All I have left is heartache,
Frustration of this stupid self
Guts fell all over the floor
My mind thought a thousand worthless
stupid thoughts that ends up
with unforgivable, illogical, stupid time wasting ideas
You leave me with heartache,
frustration of myself
I shall feel it while it lasts.
Like the rest… you will be a past.
Fuck it.
The pain is still the same
If not, more painful
I’ll miss your smile
That, I’ll miss the most
And the chance to know you
Let alone having you
I’ll miss your silky white skin,
Never touched, only looked upon
At a distance
I’ll miss your long black hair,
And again, your smile
I thought I had it,
Self-esteem, confidence
We never said a word to each other
All those only can I imagine
All I have left is heartache,
Frustration of this stupid self
Guts fell all over the floor
My mind thought a thousand worthless
stupid thoughts that ends up
with unforgivable, illogical, stupid time wasting ideas
You leave me with heartache,
frustration of myself
I shall feel it while it lasts.
Like the rest… you will be a past.
Fuck it.
Saturday, November 21, 2009
The weeping Imam
As he read the verses, he wept
the unforgiving world,
where people judge your sins,
sins they commit themselves,
and they pride on their hatred,
hypocrisy,
love, no more meaning,
no one understands it,
he wept as love is simple,
made complicated
Lies, in everyday conversation
like vowels in words
He wept as he knew,
no one knew or cared
to the verses he read,
what more, to appreciate it
he felt sad,
as people thought he wept
being touched by the verses
he read.
Yes it came from Allah.
But he wept because of the world,
the people, society
to them God is far,
complications of life,
but He is right in their hearts,
yet they refuse
he wept of rejection,
rejection of the way of God.
Extremism too
and those who believe
to be better than others
very close to God
that they could judge others
He wept as he read the verses
on microphone
not knowing what tomorrow brings
praying, for a better world
praying, that he could do something
for a pure genuine happiness
one similar,
he describes as heaven
Friday, July 3, 2009
life.
I tend to look at good things in life,
but sadly, in life, good things are hard to find.
damn it.
please be gentle on me life!
but sadly, in life, good things are hard to find.
damn it.
please be gentle on me life!
Thursday, April 30, 2009
Mon sentiments les plus sinceres.
J'ay desiré cent fois me transformer, et d'estre.
Un espirit invisible, afin de me cacher.
J'adore mon voisin beaucoup
avec amour
-Alex
Un espirit invisible, afin de me cacher.
J'adore mon voisin beaucoup
avec amour
-Alex
Wednesday, March 25, 2009
past.
Stop.
please.
don't open-up the same old wound.
I'm tired.
And I'm hurt.
But, somehow,
I can't get enough of you. =|
please.
don't open-up the same old wound.
I'm tired.
And I'm hurt.
But, somehow,
I can't get enough of you. =|
Monday, March 23, 2009
The End
Time keeps slipping by
like sand through an hourglass;
but always I wonder why
life begins and ends so fast.
It is like one minute you are here
the next you are gone,
simply disspeared
like the ending of the dawn.
Darkness seeps in,
takes over the heart;
not one person can win...
it will rip your soul apart.
like sand through an hourglass;
but always I wonder why
life begins and ends so fast.
It is like one minute you are here
the next you are gone,
simply disspeared
like the ending of the dawn.
Darkness seeps in,
takes over the heart;
not one person can win...
it will rip your soul apart.
Sunday, March 22, 2009
of world.
What more can i offer the world,
When i can only give the world nothing.
What more can i offer the world,
When I'm the one who need something.
I dare not speak of that "something",
For I'm afraid that "something" would runaway.
I dare not speak of it,
For i don't have strength nor courage.
I dare not speak of anything.
When i can only give the world nothing.
What more can i offer the world,
When I'm the one who need something.
I dare not speak of that "something",
For I'm afraid that "something" would runaway.
I dare not speak of it,
For i don't have strength nor courage.
I dare not speak of anything.
Tuesday, March 17, 2009
one way street.
Was it my fault?
or was it the situation that forced me
to drive my heart out
on this one way street of love.
I am.
I do..
I wish...
Damn it.
I could not speak nor
write about matters of heart.
or was it the situation that forced me
to drive my heart out
on this one way street of love.
I am.
I do..
I wish...
Damn it.
I could not speak nor
write about matters of heart.
Monday, March 16, 2009
Saturday, March 14, 2009
I just want you to know that:-
When the cold nights been sleepless
and faith turned to be weakly hopeless
in the sharp darkness that never shines
when I had truly nothing to call mine
I met you..
when the roads been long and I was lost
& the sun's light seemed never to last
days passed by , crossing back to the past..
when I never truly felt these days un-noticed
I felt you..
when I walked the unknown with tears ahead.
Fear pumped my heart for the unknowns threat
Blood boiled through my frozen dead soul..and
just when I needed to live again & feel whole
I found you..
Yes,you.
The one who catch me when i fall,
and save me from the darkness after all.
You are like an angel or a saint,
You've made me feel i was reborn again.
and faith turned to be weakly hopeless
in the sharp darkness that never shines
when I had truly nothing to call mine
I met you..
when the roads been long and I was lost
& the sun's light seemed never to last
days passed by , crossing back to the past..
when I never truly felt these days un-noticed
I felt you..
when I walked the unknown with tears ahead.
Fear pumped my heart for the unknowns threat
Blood boiled through my frozen dead soul..and
just when I needed to live again & feel whole
I found you..
Yes,you.
The one who catch me when i fall,
and save me from the darkness after all.
You are like an angel or a saint,
You've made me feel i was reborn again.
Friday, March 13, 2009
Winnie the pooh
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.
-Winnie the Pooh
Sweetest god damn bear on the face of this earth.
BOOOOM
credits: http://www.booooooom.com/This is part of an art project to give words of encouragement to people. The world is already so full of pessimism and negativity, it would be nice to tell the people you care and love how awesome they really are :)
Children of tomorrow
credits: http://tinrulestheworld.tumblr.com/post/85719073/children-live-what-they-learn
Treat the children as how they should be treated. Or at least, for the child in us all.
Thursday, March 12, 2009
Omerta
be in the zone, know what ur doing, think right and make the decision.
cuz sometimes we tend to make the wrong decisions, which eventually hurt the people around us. i know its cliche, but have u ever thought how the people around really can be affected even though u swear to god it has nothing to do with others, only urself?
reconsider if u say no.
i dont know what im crapping earlier, but what i wanna talk bout now is Omerta.
do u know what is omerta?
omerta is a noun for people who commit crime but keep it as a secret and not letting the authority know bout the crime u did. usually this involves secrecy in a mafia group.
but nevertheless, it also implies individually. well at least i believe it implies individually. i also believe omerta is just not about criminal activities but any crime that u do to urself, be it love or feelings.
do justice to ur self.
stand up straight and say out loud what do u feel, what hurts u. what decision ur going to make. gather the courage and move forward and not backwards.
it might hurt a lil bit but hell, u have a long way to go, there are other things to achieve,to know, to feel and to love.
dont lie to urself my friends.
dont torture urself.
dont commit omerta to whats important the most.
yeah by that i mean ur heart and feelings.
whoever appeals to the law against his fellow man is either a fool or a coward. whoever cannot take care of themself without the law is both.
such is the rule of honor...
fuz.
He gives; only what you can take.
credits: gapingvoid.com
Shit always happens for a reason. Be strong enough to realise.
Tuesday, March 10, 2009
The lamp post
I cannot promise you,
the life of kings and queens,
but i can promise you happiness,
I cannot promise you fame,
but we'll live out of love.
I will love your beauty,
that comes from your heart,
for Your face and body,
though i cherish a lot,
is temporary.
but the beauty of you heart,
lasts forever.
As we grow older,
my love to you
will be the same,
if not more.
Because even till then
my eyes see the beauty of your heart
that will not cease,
and that matters the most.
I cannot offer you
the face of a model,
the body of an athlete.
But my offer to you,
is the heart of an angel,
the mind of a saint,
The passion of the passionate.
I still can't promise you
the life of a superstar,
but everything we do,
we'll do out of love
An adventurous journey
of love shared between us,
And happiness
our sunset
our sunrise.
If you still want the lights and the red carpet and the voices cheering your name, I shall buy a rag, dye it in red, I shall buy a radio and i shall play the recorded voices of your name cheered
under the lamp post and we shall walk on the rag while we imagine happily that we're superstars.
the life of kings and queens,
but i can promise you happiness,
I cannot promise you fame,
but we'll live out of love.
I will love your beauty,
that comes from your heart,
for Your face and body,
though i cherish a lot,
is temporary.
but the beauty of you heart,
lasts forever.
As we grow older,
my love to you
will be the same,
if not more.
Because even till then
my eyes see the beauty of your heart
that will not cease,
and that matters the most.
I cannot offer you
the face of a model,
the body of an athlete.
But my offer to you,
is the heart of an angel,
the mind of a saint,
The passion of the passionate.
I still can't promise you
the life of a superstar,
but everything we do,
we'll do out of love
An adventurous journey
of love shared between us,
And happiness
our sunset
our sunrise.
If you still want the lights and the red carpet and the voices cheering your name, I shall buy a rag, dye it in red, I shall buy a radio and i shall play the recorded voices of your name cheered
under the lamp post and we shall walk on the rag while we imagine happily that we're superstars.
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